relationships vs friendships.

my friend serene, just broke off with her bf. and guess what? she realizes that she has been too dependent on her bf way too much. so much that she had already lost so many friends and now she has regretted, but it's all too late. she was crying and sobbing for the entire night just now and all that i can do is to lend her a listening ear, comfort her and assure her that she'll meet more people as the day comes. then, i sent her to sleep. i hope she learns her lesson. never to put all the eggs in a basket.

so what if you had a bad quarrel with your guy? it's your FRIENDS who will be there for you. so what if you had conflicts with your friends? it's your other FRIENDS who will be there for you too. yup you will be asking, then what about your bf?

well, because in his stand he's your guy and a male.
he doesn't understand your plight too well like a girl friend does.
you need advices and such from someone who knows, you see.

if:

you realize that you feel very empty without your guy,
your world is only him, him, him, him and just him,
you dont know who to turn to when you had a quarrel,
you had no one to go out with when your bf isn't around,
you put him above everything else in the world including your family,

then, you are in danger.

that is why, i do not put my boyfriend above my girls; not now not in the future. and i wouldnt approve of anyone who will be, because that shouldnt be the case. you need to at least balance yourself between the both; relationship and friendship. sad to say, a very true fact is that, no one in this world is that reliable to stay with you FOREVER. so what happens if the person leaves you? your world came crashing down not only because of the departure, but also because you are left with NOTHING. so i tend to get very frustrated when people ditched their friends due to boyfriends for small reasons that are not sufficient enough to throw your friends aside.

am i right people? (: